I am getting married in June and later Ramadan starts, I would like to know can we share bed during Ramadan or when we observe fast also or what is Islamic view/restrictions about it. Also adding on the question can we have oral sex?
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
(Fatwa: 751/454/L=1434)
It is lawful to sleep with wife and have sex during the night of Ramadan. Likewise it is also lawful to sleep with her during day time and have foreplay with her. However, if by foreplay one fears ejaculation or falling in intercourse then it is necessary to avoid foreplay.
Oral sex is makrooh and bestiality. [M]
Allah knows Best!
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband