Answered by: Molana Muhammad Adnan
Question:
Pleased to Salam Duva aur Pyar for every Girls, and to inform that I am a married Person. My wife is Expired in Cardiac Arrest. I have a son of 22 years old. I wish to marry a good family respective girl above 25 years to 30 years who will support in my life with Happiness and live a peaceful life. Please contact me in my for Clarification.
Answer
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hand possesses. That is more suitable that you may not incline [to injustice]. (Chapter 3 Verse 4)
“a woman is married for her deen, her wealth or her beauty. You must go for the one with deen, may your hands be in the dust!(if you fail to heed)” [muslim}
Ali (May Allah Ta’ala be pleased with him)reported that the Prophet(Alayhis salam) said to hi “o Ali! Do not postpone three things: prayer when it is time for it, funeral when it is ready and the marriage of an unmarried women when a suitable match is found.”[Ahmad 828, Ibn e Majah 1486]
From the above we can see that it is an emphasised sunnah to marry 2,3 or 4 wives. We can also see the importance of marrying a woman for her deen and lastly, it is at the least disliked to delay the nikaah without a valid reason.
Written by Molana Muhammad Adnan
Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah
Darul Ifta Birmingham