asalam alaykum.iam married and ihave 1daughter 6years old.but my wife is not under my control she is always against my decision.i dont know what she want.and what i should do its almost 5years now.i cannot explain her more she alwas says sorry if i catch her mistake.but if make any mistake she tells to every one.eventhough i never make mistake my own its when she does somethiong wronge i gets angry.its then she make miss use of it by telling to every one.she makes the atmosphere very hard 4 me thats why i gets angry.i dont know what to do.pls help me as soon as possible.she is in india and iam in dubai and last 3month ididnt talk to her and she also she always give the phone 2 my daughter
Make her understand with wisdom and politeness. Do not go away from her for a long time. Give her books for study like Tuhfa-e-Dulhan, Bahishti Zewar, Talimuddin etc so that she is aware of your rights and behave you well. Negligence from religion and lacking knowledge of rights pertaining spouse causes dispute and quarrel between husband and wife. Strive to get her obedient and religious.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Uloom Deoband