I have three questions 1) can a husband touch, insert his fingers in her wife’s private parts during foreplay.(Is this act considered as modesty). 2) can a husband put some jam or honey on his wife breast and some other parts (not on private parts) and lick from there.(Is this act considered as modesty). 3) can a husband put his private part in between his wifes breast and between his wifes buttocks during foreplay.(Is this act considered as modesty).
Answer:
(Fatwa: 463/419=D)
(1)It is not unlawful, but undoubtedly it is improper; one should adopt proper ways for pleasure.
(2)It is not good to have a habit of it.
(3)It is undesirable due to fear of entering backside. It is better to have proper ways of pleasure and foreplay.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband