Assalamoelaikum.”My son Azeem Who Marred Name Irfana on 24/05/09.at Jetpur. After 2 Month Later She Left Our House.And Yet Stayed At Her Parent’s House Sice Last 1 Year.Her Parent’s Have No Dindari, Hense Our Attempts For Compromises At Jamat Level& Some Well Known Impreessives Persons,Yet They Are Not Becoming Soft Or Humble .They Lead Us to Court Under Colmn,125.And They Demand Us To Separate Life,And Separate House.After One Year Later They Demand To Separate House.She Stayed Only 2 Monthnd At our Home, Hense We All Are Worried Position.And Urge to Allah That Allah May Give Them Good Understanding And Khauf. .After Nikah Howmany Day’s They Keep They Daughter At Parent.s Home? Allah ka Sukra Mangte Nahi Aata Ke Hamare Ghar me Inke Gharse Behter Jindagi He, to Allah Ka Sukra Ada Karna Chahiyeh,Aur Allah Se Behter Bhalai mangniChahiyehthi.Firbhi Alag Rehna Hai. Pl.Let Us Know Azeem’ ka Alag Rehna Behter Sabit Hoga Ya Nahi?Irfana Azeem Ke ?liye Vafadar Rahegi Ya Nahi ? Unko Alag Karneme Hamaribhi Bhalai He Ke Nahi?
Answer:
(Fatwa: 1600/1250/B=1431)
The purpose of nikah for husband and wife is to fulfil their sexual desires and to develop the life of taqwa. It is not lawful for the parents of girl to keep her back at their home. It is necessary for them to send her to husband’s house. However, she can visit her parents’ home repeatedly to meet them. After marriage, her home is that of husband, she should stay there. If she wants to stay separately, the husband should make reasonable arrangement.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband