I have been engaged to my cousin by my family in june; the nikah has not been Performed yet. As I live in Doha and she lives in Kashmir, we taik to each other on phone. I just want to know if I can talk to her and express my love for her, we don’t even touch the realm of sex.
Answer
In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatoh
It is not permissible to talk to the person you are engaged to even if the nature of the discussion is general. You may conduct a search on our site for answers to similar queries to understand the harms and dangers of doing so.
And Allah knows best
Wassalam
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
Darul Iftaa, Madrassah In’aamiyyah