Me and his man love eachother dearly for the past 2 years and have been thru many ordeals but have remained strong in the end. We were about to marry, I worry deeply for him as a crisis has changed his mind about marrying me and does not want to hurt me in future in the marriage. He has lost faith in Allah to help him and is very depressed and has dissapeared from my life and from family. He is a very wonderful man with a beautiful heart and he taught me about the wonderful religion Islam which has led me to Convert. If Allah cannot help me, please I pray to help this man. He was a part of me and I was a part of him. He doesnt deserve the hardship he is going through, and Needs Allah’s blessings.
Masha Allah that you have accepted Islaam and you have learnt about Islaam. Remember That to accept Islaam, the criteria is the firm belief of Allah Ta’ala is important and develop a love for our Creator is important. Allah Ta’ala is very Kind, Very Caring , Very Loving that if man lets us down Allah never does. This development of love will help if a relationship goes wrong or a disaster takes place at this stage never despair in the Mercy of Allah Ta’ala.
However beware often men engage in relationships forbidden and they are aware it’s not going to extend into marriage misleading women. However their guilty consciences are eased by convincing women in many ways. I have hope this has not occured. Nevertheless if you wish you may direct him to discuss his problems with us. Perhaps it will help Insha Allah.
Nevertheless should you require any direction or guide on Islaam do not hesitate to contact us. May Allah Ta’ala grant you your good lawful desires and make your difficulties and make you amongst HIS chosen creations. Insha Allah
and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best