Do mean that a husband can touch or insert his fingers in the private parts of his wife?

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Intimacy between the husband and wife is a relationship which should be conducted with mutual understanding and with respect and dignity. That also includes the manner of intimacy explained in the question.

and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best

Mufti Ebrahim Desai

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