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I feel guilty ! want to marry her.

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I proposed my cousin seven years. We communicate with each other and we have kissed and touch each other for which i feel very guilty, but never did intercourse with her. Then suddenly she was involved with another guy who lives next to his house and she also talked him . When i noticed that I close my all relationship with her thought that I should not marry her.. After some time she sorry me and again we have contact on phone. It happens 2 to 3 times. Right now she told me that she will talk again to him. One thing I forgot to mention she has a relation ship with him. Though I am not sure about it and they exchange the gifts also. The current situation is my mother don’t want me to marry with her and i m forcing her because I feel guilty. I don’t know the reason why she don’t want to marry with her probably because my sister is also engaged with her brother. So please help and give me some suggestions as I am really confused and please let me know if her relationship with other guy will make impact if we get marriage.
You should not feel guilty; if she had remained by her covenant and you didn’t marry her then it would be something.
If there is a friendly relationship with someone else then it means nothing but that later it would cause problems and the trust would be lifted from each other. Additionally, the mother is not agreeing with this and you should care about her blessings. The best thing to do for you is to leave and forget this situation.

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