Getting involved in a haraam relationship

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Q: I met a girl and started speaking, then I was forced to get involved in love as she threatened to kill herself if I don’t get married to her. I am still in contact with her through phone the phone. How can I get relieved from her and repent to Allah as her parents are also willing to get her married to me, but she is not a practising muslima and not wearing hijaab. Please advise.


A: You both should sincerely repent for getting involved in this sin, and make a firm resolve never to repeat it in the future, and if you feel that it is difficult for you to leave her, then you should enter into nikaah. 

And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.


Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

This answer was collected from, where the questions have been answered by Mufti Zakaria Makada (Hafizahullah), who is currently a senior lecturer in the science of Hadith and Fiqh at Madrasah Ta’leemuddeen, Isipingo Beach, South Africa.

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