Q: I really need your help. I was in a relationship with a boy for five years. From the last 5 months I was in a state of depression due to my poor health and most importantly my failure in medical entrance exams after hard efforts day by day I was getting more and more irritating and stressed. To a great extent I was dependent on him. One day he said he is fed up and can’t handle it and he left. It was like a shock for me 1.5 month is over and he has not made any contact. All my numbers are in reject list. I don’t know what has happened and what is Allah’s will. One of my cousins for her family matter went to one maulana. There she explained my situation also to him and he said there is some asar (black magic) done on him and to cure that I will have to spend huge sum of money which I can’t afford. Previously I never believed in black magic but even our prophet (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) was targeted through black magic, then who are we? Please help me. I am totally helpless and hopeless.
A: All types of premarital relationships are impermissible.
And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
Answered by:
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)