i love agirl since 11 years & now i want to marry from her but i cant because i dont have enough money for that, but i cant live without her i know this is wrong in islam but i tried many time to left her but i couldnt ,so please please i cant wait & i cant be patient, i want solution to my probleme i need answer & thanks alot to who will answer me , assalamu alaikom
Answer
(Fatwa: 1118/1118=M/1430)
You should consult your parents about marrying the girl. It is advisable to you to perform istikharah too. If the family members from both sides approve the marriage, try to solemnize the Nikah as soon as possible. For performing walimah and Nikah as per the sunnah, there is no need for sufficient money. If the istikharah and consultation is in negative, you should get the thought of the girl out of your mind. If Allah wills, the next marriage proposal will be better.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
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