I have been in a relation with a girl & loved her INSANELY for the past 9 years, 17.10.14 after a argument & fight (that took place on 15.10.14 where I was the right one & where she admitted & asked for another chance & forgiveness & cried), she suddenly finished our 9 years relation saying “she doesn’t have same feeling for me & she has met someone”. But just after 15mins of that, her friend calls on her behalf and says she actually needs time & space that I have to give for her to really think about me as she thinks maybe it might not work with the new man she met, maybe she still loves me & has feelings for me. It might take a month, 2 month, 3 month but I should not contact her & give her a time, if things work out with the new man she will tell me so that I still dont keep waiting
I need a very effective Wazifa/Dua/prayer (and how &what time will it be MORE effective) which will make the following happen:
1) She comes back to me right away (not months) realizing our 9years relation & how much I love her (I know she still has feelings for me, EVEN if its less)
2) I want NOTHING for her to work with the new man, resulting in contacting me.
Please help me as past 7 days I’m not myself anymore, I can’t stop my tears, Ive not even been to work, I cant wait more, Im scared if I delayt she will gain more stronger feelings for the other man. My friends tell me if she feels for you & misses you she will come back no matter what, but since its a new relation it might have sparks in it. Please help 🙁
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
Being in an illicit relationship is harām and to seek some sort of duā to get that woman back is adding more flame to the fire.
This is your chance to repent and break free from harām. You have mentioned that you are insanely in love with her, however true love is that which is found in marriage.
Rasulullah (salallahu alayhi wa sallam) has said:
You will not see any thing that increases [more love] for two lovers than marriage. [i]
It is not permissible for you to talk or meet with this woman let alone to make duā for her return:
وَلا تَقْرَبُوا الزِّنَا إِنَّهُ كَانَ فَاحِشَةً وَسَاءَ سَبِيلا
And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way.
(Surah Al-‘Isrā’, 32)
You have mentioned that you cannot stop your tears for the past week and you are not yourself anymore. You are looking at this situation from the standpoint of your nafs, and it will naturally prefer to fulfill its desires. You are thinking that all this is bad for you and that your whole world has come crashing down, whereas in reality Allah is giving you a second chance.
We sincerely advise you to turn towards Allah and repent. Ask Him to bless you with a wonderful, chaste wife who you can devote yourself to and who is devoted to you.
And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best
Sohail ibn Arif,
Student Darul Iftaa
Chicago, USA
Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.
لم تر للمتحابّين مثل النِّكاحِ [i]
مظاهر حق جديد شرح مشكاة المصابيح، كتاب النكاح الفصل الثالث، ص. ٢٥٠ دار الاشاعات