In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
Sister in Islam. You enquire the Shar’ie (religious) ruling on the issue. That itself is an act of ibaadat and a sign of your religious consciousness.
We make duaa Allah Ta’ala grant you the courage to overcome your difficulties.
In principle if a husband claims he issued 3 divorces, that constitutes a Talaaq-e-mughallazah (an irrevocable divorce). The implications thereof being that the Nikaah terminated at that point and the spouses cannot live together as husband and wife.[i]
Furthermore, divorce issued in the state of anger is valid.[ii]
Allah Ta’ala says:
وَمَنْ يَتَّقِ اللَّهَ يَجْعَلْ لَهُ مَخْرَجًا
Translation: And whomsoever fears Allah, Allah shall create an escape for him.
Turn to Allah Ta’ala, make dua and submit to whatever is the ruling of Shari’ah.
And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best
Muhammad Yusuf bin Moulana Abdur Rahim Khan
Student Darul Iftaa
Chatsworth, Durban, KZN, South Africa
Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.
[i]مختصر القدوري (ص: 154)
وطلاق البدعة: إن يطلقها ثلاثا بكلمة واحدة أو ثلاثا في طهر واحد فإذا فعل ذلك وقع الطلاق وبانت منه وكان عاصيا
الدر المختار وحاشية ابن عابدين (رد المحتار) (3/ 293)
كرر لفظ الطلاق وقع الكل
[ii] الدر المختار وحاشية ابن عابدين (رد المحتار) (3/ 244)
ويقع الطلاق من غضب خلافا لابن القيم اهـ وهذا الموافق عندنا لما مر في المدهوش
“The messenger of Allah said,” When Allah wishes good for someone, he bestows upon him the understanding of Deen” [Bukhari & Muslim] “- @MuftiEbrahim (Twitter)