If I am to marry a male who is newly converting to Islam without his parents knowing, is it permissible for me to do their marriage ritual (for a Sikh religion) for his parents sake along with my Nikah? He does not want to upset his parents, and since they don’t know about his conversion yet, it will be awkward not to perform their ritual. Please guide me on what to do. Jazakallah
In principle, it is not permissible to follow the customs and rituals of
other religions merely to avoid an awkward situation.
The male should apply wisdom and diplomacy in informing his parents and
family of his reversion to Islam. If he is unable to do so due to the fear
of being severely punished, etc. then only will he be excused.
and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
FATWA DEPT.