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My sister has sent my nephews to another city for hafis studies. The one of 15 is most unhappy …

Shaykh Ebrahim DesaiRead

Assalamu alikum wa rahmatullahi respected Mufti sahb, I moved to Pakistan with my husband and 2 kids from U.S. 2 1/2 yrs. ago  for the sole purpose of my husband acquiring Deeni knowledge. Allah swt gave me a chance as well to attend a madrassa for a short course. Recently our younger son who is 4 1/2 yrs. old got into an accident in which his right big toe got deeply injured. Due to fazl of Allah swt it didn’t have any effect on the function of his foot at all, Alhumdulillah. Mismanagements and non-courteous behavior here makes us miss home and wanting to go back before time. The thing that worries me is his reaction to the fact that his toe doesn’t look the same as before, and the worst of all is the fear of peoples’ comments & questions. Although he is a very strong child, still there could be times of distress. 1) How can we better comfort and console him from Deeni point of view? Any stories of Sahaba ra relating to such an incident? 2) Could hardships come upon one due to one’s parent(s) sins? Please support the answers with Qur’anic ayaat and/or Ahadith. Also, please accept my earnest request of keeping my query private by not posting it on your website, instead you can simply reply back to my email address. Jazakallahu khairan for your efforts.

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During an argument, my husband said to me: “”i divorce you, i divorce you, i divorce you” 3 times all in the same sentence. He said this in front of my father in law. …He wants me back and I want my marriage to stay valid as well.

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My family is not muslim ,and they live in France. So when we go and visit them it happens that there is wine on the table ….I m in the same room because i want to be with them for this occasion . Is it allowed for me to sit with them , and if it is not how can I still go and visit my family?

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My brother lives in Norway and he asked a woman to marry him here in America. They have seen each other only in photos. The marriage did not work out because she did not want to go to live in Norway nor did my brother wanted to come to live here in America. So my question is can I ask the same woman in marriage? I live in America.

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If the husband is studying in a far away place and the wife lives with her parents, whose rules should she obey?

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Can a girl or a women work, if yes than in what circumstances.

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Is it ok to a have a boyfriend for three years? and can i marry him without knowing my family to just avoid doing something that god didnt told as to do?

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The following procedure was carried out. We both signed up a contract and including the signatures of 2 witnesses who were present during the nikkah one of whom was a hafez….

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About secret marriage, you have stated that all that is needed for a marriage to be valid is 2 sane Muslim men as witnesses (no wali or imam). However, when we called our local Masjid and talked to the imam about our situation and marriage, he told us a hadith that said that a marriage is not-valid without a wali. He went on to tell us that a wali is required for it to be a valid marriage!

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My husband left me when i was 8 month pregnant, due to his parents.he through me out my home. after the birth of my child he sent me talaq 3 weeks later in writing,

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If a person wish go to tabligh jamat but his parents forbids, would it be right for him to go without geting their permission?

Shaykh Ebrahim DesaiRead

SALAAM, MY HUSBAND IS HAS A FERTILITY PROBLEM. WITH MY FIRST CHILD WE DID INVITRO AND WE HAD A HEALTHY GIRL.(ALHAMDILLA). I TRIED DOING INVITRO AGAIN WITH ANOTHER CHILD AND GOT PREGNANT I WAS FIVE MONTH PREGNANT WHEN THE DOCTORS TOLD ME TO TERMINATE THE BABY SINCE IT WOULD DIE IN MY TUMMY AND AFFECT MY LIFE. WHEN I LOST THE BABY THEY FOUND OUT SOMETHING WAS WRONG WITH THE BABY ME AND MY HUSBAND HAVE A RECESSIVE TRAIT  THAT LEADS TO SOMEKIND OF CROMOSOME PROBLEM. SO WHEN I TRY TO DO INVITRO AGAIN I HAVE TO DO SOMETHING CALLED PGD WHERE THE CHECK THE CHROMOSOMES. AND PUT ONLY THE HEALTHY EMBROYS WITH ME IN THE INVITRO.  WITH THE PGD THEY CAN CHECK IF ITS A BOY OR A GIRL. I WAS WONDERING IF THAT IS HARAM. I WOULD LIKE TO HAVE A BOY SINCE I ONLY HAVE ONE GIRL AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 10 YEARS. PLEASE DO NOT PUT THIS QUESTION ONLINE I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT.!!!!!!!!!! JAZAKALLAH KHAIR BKFASHION01@AOL.COM

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We want to make us halaal so we can improve our deen …we dnt know how to ask our parents if we can nikkah with our parents still supporting us as usual. afraid they wil not accept our wishes. how do i approach our parents?

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I hve a question for the imam saheb that in about 2 weeks we will be going for our Invitro fertilization here in canada…

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Someone who helped me through a difficult time in my life that I had a gift that was given by Allah swa….Is this strange and am I crazy to believe in something like this?

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My brother and mother have always had a rocky relationship, but he always takes his wife side over us: what is his duty or responsibility towards ….

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Can we do the nikah in any mosque. My parents know about the girl but they are saying no ….

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What about cross marriage in Islam I mean (one person marry a girl and his brother in law is marring his sister) both of them are brother in law for each other.

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I am in love with a girl and her too in love with me. We want to marry and I made three times istikhara by some person …

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