I have a question regarding talaq.
I have been for married for 3 month and am currently in a situation that a month ago my husband said that he in his anger had given me talaq 4 times, first time saying it 2 times and again two times two days later, meaning a total of 4 times. He believed that it should have been said three times in a row. I on the other hand I contradict that he never has given me talaq. He has only threatened to say the word.
According to many scholars it is equal to talaq and that only halala is required if I want to re-marry my husband.
I have on the other hand also read other statements where it says that no matter how many talaqs you give the once, that will only be count as 1. Additionally I have also read that each talaq must be given after each “iddat” time. I am therefore very confused even though we both want to be together we also want to assure that we do it the right way. They also emphasize if there is any confusion one must always follow what the Quran and our prophet has stated.
With reference to the following:
Surah Al Baqarah, Ch. v.228-240
Surah Al Talaaq Ch.65 v.1-7
Surah Al Nisa Ch. 4 v. 35
And Sahih Muslim Vol. 2 Bk. Of Divorce Hadith no. 3491:
Ibn ‘Abbas (Allah be pleased with them) reported that the (pronouncement) of three divorces during the lifetime of Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) and that of Abu Bakr and two years of the caliphate of Umar (Allah be pleased with him) (was treated) as one. But Umar b. Khattab (Allah be pleased with him) said: Verily the people have begun to hasten in the matter in which they are required to observe respite. So if we had imposed this upon them, and he imposed it upon them.
Based upon the above, I would appreciate an answer to my question. In case the answer is that divorce has taken place, please also answer why that contradicts with what the prophet has stated (Sahih Muslim Vol. 2 Bk. Of Divorce Hadith no. 3491), and if the divorce has not taken place please advice me what do I need to do to be with my husband again?
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