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Asking one’s parents for forgiveness

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Q: How can we repent if we said bad words to our parents?ย 

Bismillaah

A: Ask them for forgiveness and also beg Allah Ta’ala to forgive you. Thereafter serve them to the the best of your ability. Serve them to the extent that you create cheer and happiness within their hearts and they become pleased with you. Whenever you speak to them or interact with them, ensure that you fulfil their rights and show respect and kindness towards them.

And Allah Ta’ala (ุงู„ู„ู‡ ุชุนุงู„ู‰) knows best.

ูˆูŽู‚ูŽุถูŽู‰ูฐ ุฑูŽุจูู‘ูƒูŽ ุฃูŽู„ูŽู‘ุง ุชูŽุนู’ุจูุฏููˆุง ุฅูู„ูŽู‘ุง ุฅููŠูŽู‘ุงู‡ู ูˆูŽุจูุงู„ู’ูˆูŽุงู„ูุฏูŽูŠู’ู†ู ุฅูุญู’ุณูŽุงู†ู‹ุง ุฅูู…ูŽู‘ุง ูŠูŽุจู’ู„ูุบูŽู†ูŽู‘ ุนูู†ุฏูŽูƒูŽ ุงู„ู’ูƒูุจูŽุฑูŽ ุฃูŽุญูŽุฏูู‡ูู…ูŽุง ุฃูŽูˆู’ ูƒูู„ูŽุงู‡ูู…ูŽุง ููŽู„ูŽุง ุชูŽู‚ูู„ ู„ูŽู‘ู‡ูู…ูŽุง ุฃูููู‘ ูˆูŽู„ูŽุง ุชูŽู†ู’ู‡ูŽุฑู’ู‡ูู…ูŽุง ูˆูŽู‚ูู„ ู„ูŽู‘ู‡ูู…ูŽุง ู‚ูŽูˆู’ู„ู‹ุง ูƒูŽุฑููŠู…ู‹ุง ๏ดฟุงู„ุฅุณุฑุงุก: ูขูฃ๏ดพ

ูˆูŽุฅูุฐู’ ุฃูŽุฎูŽุฐู’ู†ูŽุง ู…ููŠุซูŽุงู‚ูŽ ุจูŽู†ููŠ ุฅูุณู’ุฑูŽุงุฆููŠู„ูŽ ู„ูŽุง ุชูŽุนู’ุจูุฏููˆู†ูŽ ุฅูู„ูŽู‘ุง ุงู„ู„ูŽู‘ู€ู‡ูŽ ูˆูŽุจูุงู„ู’ูˆูŽุงู„ูุฏูŽูŠู’ู†ู ุฅูุญู’ุณูŽุงู†ู‹ุง ๏ดฟุงู„ุจู‚ุฑุฉ: ูจูฃ๏ดพ

ุนู† ุนุจุฏ ุงู„ู„ู‡ ุจู† ุนู…ุฑูˆ ู‚ุงู„ ุฌุงุก ุฑุฌู„ ุฅู„ู‰ ุฑุณูˆู„ ุงู„ู„ู‡ ุตู„ู‰ ุงู„ู„ู‡ ุนู„ูŠู‡ ูˆุณู„ู… ูู‚ุงู„ ุฌุฆุช ุฃุจุงูŠุนูƒ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ู‡ุฌุฑุฉ ูˆุชุฑูƒุช ุฃุจูˆู‰ ูŠุจูƒูŠุงู† ูู‚ุงู„ ุงุฑุฌุน ุนู„ูŠู‡ู…ุง ูุฃุถุญูƒู‡ู…ุง ูƒู…ุง ุฃุจูƒูŠุชู‡ู…ุง (ุณู†ู† ุฃุจูŠ ุฏุงูˆุฏ ุฑู‚ู… 2530)

( ู„ุง ) ูŠูุฑุถ ( ุนู„ู‰ ุตุจูŠ ) ูˆุจุงู„ุบ ู„ู‡ ุฃุจูˆุงู† ุฃูˆ ุฃุญุฏู‡ู…ุง ู„ุฃู† ุทุงุนุชู‡ู…ุง ูุฑุถ ุนูŠู† ูˆู‚ุงู„ ุนู„ูŠู‡ ุงู„ุตู„ุงุฉ ูˆุงู„ุณู„ุงู… ู„ู„ุนุจุงุณ ุจู† ู…ุฑุฏุงุณ ู„ู…ุง ุฃุฑุงุฏ ุงู„ุฌู‡ุงุฏ ุงู„ุฒู… ุฃู…ูƒ ูุฅู† ุงู„ุฌู†ุฉ ุชุญุช ุฑุฌู„ ุฃู…ูƒ ุณุฑุงุฌ ูˆููŠู‡ ู„ุง ูŠุญู„ ุณูุฑ ููŠู‡ ุฎุทุฑ ุฅู„ุง ุจุฅุฐู†ู‡ู…ุง ูˆู…ุง ู„ุง ุฎุทุฑ ููŠู‡ ูŠุญู„ ุจู„ุง ุฅุฐู† ูˆู…ู†ู‡ ุงู„ุณูุฑ ููŠ ุทู„ุจ ุงู„ุนู„ู…
ู‚ุงู„ ุงู„ุดุงู…ูŠ : ู‚ูˆู„ู‡ ( ูˆุจุงู„ุบ ู„ู‡ ุฃุจูˆุงู† ) ู…ูุงุฏู‡ ุฃู†ู‡ู…ุง ู„ุง ูŠุฃุซู…ุงู† ููŠ ู…ู†ุนู‡ ูˆุฅู„ุง ู„ูƒุงู† ู„ู‡ ุงู„ุฎุฑูˆุฌ ุญุชู‰ ูŠุจุทู„ ุนู†ู‡ู…ุง ุงู„ุฅุซู… ู…ุน ุฃู†ู‡ู…ุง ููŠ ุณุนุฉ ู…ู† ู…ู†ุนู‡ ุฅุฐุง ูƒุงู† ูŠุฏุฎู„ู‡ู…ุง ู…ู† ุฐู„ูƒ ู…ุดู‚ุฉ ุดุฏูŠุฏุฉ ูˆุดู…ู„ ุงู„ูƒุงูุฑูŠู† ุฃูŠุถุง ุฃูˆ ุฃุญุฏู‡ู…ุง ุฅุฐุง ูƒุฑู‡ ุฎุฑูˆุฌู‡ ู…ุฎุงูุฉ ูˆู…ุดู‚ุฉ ูˆุฅู„ุง ุจู„ ู„ูƒุฑุงู‡ุฉ ู‚ุชุงู„ ุฃู‡ู„ ุฏูŠู†ู‡ ูู„ุง ูŠุทูŠุนู‡ ู…ุง ู„ู… ูŠุฎู ุนู„ูŠู‡ ุงู„ุถูŠุนุฉ ุฅุฐ ู„ูˆ ูƒุงู† ู…ุนุณุฑุง ู…ุญุชุงุฌุง ุฅู„ู‰ ุฎุฏู…ุชู‡ ูุฑุถุช ุนู„ูŠู‡ ูˆู„ูˆ ูƒุงูุฑุง ูˆู„ูŠุณ ู…ู† ุงู„ุตูˆุงุจ ุชุฑูƒ ูุฑุถ ุนูŠู† ู„ูŠุชูˆุตู„ ุฅู„ู‰ ูุฑุถ ูƒูุงูŠุฉ ูˆู„ูˆ ู…ุงุช ุฃุจูˆุงู‡ ูุฃุฐู† ู„ู‡ ุฌุฏู‡ ู„ุฃุจูŠู‡ ูˆุฌุฏุชู‡ ู„ุฃู…ู‡ ูˆู„ู… ูŠุฃุฐู† ู„ู‡ ุงู„ุขุฎุฑุงู† ุฃูŠ ุฃุจูˆ ุงู„ุฃู… ูˆุฃู… ุงู„ุฃุจ ูู„ุง ุจุฃุณ ุจุฎุฑูˆุฌู‡ ู„ู‚ูŠุงู… ุฃุจ ุงู„ุฃุจ ูˆุฃู… ุงู„ุฃู… ู…ู‚ุงู… ุงู„ุฃุจ ูˆุงู„ุฃู… ุนู†ุฏ ูู‚ุฏู‡ู…ุง ูˆุงู„ุขุฎุฑุงู† ูƒุจุงู‚ูŠ ุงู„ุฃุฌุงู†ุจ ุฅู„ุง ุฅุฐุง ุนุฏู… ุงู„ุฃูˆู„ุงู† ูุงู„ู…ุณุชุญุจ ุฃู† ู„ุง ูŠุฎุฑุฌ ุฅู„ุง ุจุฅุฐู†ู‡ู…ุง ูˆู„ูˆ ู„ู… ุฃู… ุฃู… ูˆุฃู… ุฃุจ ูุงู„ุฅุฐู† ู„ุฃู… ุงู„ุฃู… ุจุฏู„ูŠู„ ุชู‚ุฏู…ู‡ุง ููŠ ุงู„ุญุถุงู†ุฉ ูˆู„ุฃู† ุงู„ุฃุฎุฑู‰ ู„ุง ุชู‚ูˆู… ู…ู‚ุงู… ุงู„ุฃุจ ูˆู„ูˆ ู„ู‡ ุฃุจ ูˆุฃู… ุฃุจ ู„ุง ูŠู†ุจุบูŠ ุงู„ุฎุฑูˆุฌ ุจู„ุง ุฅุฐู†ู‡ุง ู„ุฃู†ู‡ุง ูƒุงู„ุฃู… ู„ุฃู† ุญู‚ ุงู„ุญุถุงู†ุฉ ู„ู‡ุง ูˆุฃู…ุง ุบูŠุฑ ู‡ุคู„ุงุก ูƒุงู„ุฒูˆุฌุฉ ูˆุงู„ุฃูˆู„ุงุฏ ูˆุงู„ุฃุฎูˆุงุช ูˆุงู„ุฃุนู…ุงู… ูุฅู†ู‡ ูŠุฎุฑุฌ ุจู„ุง ุฅุฐู†ู‡ู… ุฅู„ุง ุฅุฐุง ูƒุงู†ุช ู†ูู‚ุชู‡ู… ูˆุงุฌุจุฉ ุนู„ูŠู‡ู… ูˆุฎุงู ุนู„ูŠู‡ู… ุงู„ุถูŠุนุฉ ุงู‡ ู…ู„ุฎุตุง ู…ู† ุดุฑุญ ุงู„ุณูŠุฑ ุงู„ูƒุจูŠุฑ (ุฑุฏ ุงู„ู…ุญุชุงุฑ 4/124)

Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

This answer was collected from MuftiOnline.co.za, where the questions have been answered by Mufti Zakaria Makada (Hafizahullah), who is currently a senior lecturer in the science of Hadith and Fiqh at Madrasah Ta’leemuddeen, Isipingo Beach, South Africa.

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