Slms I have a huge problem one of which I’m ashamed to talk about, I’ve been married for 6 months and Alhamdulillah everything is well I’ve got a good husband there is however a major problem in the bedroom he suffers from premature ejaculation and I’ve never been satisfied in these 6 months what do I do ? Should I change his diet or practice abstinence? I over heard someone say something about a hakeem but I don’t know of any good hakeem would you be able to recommend someone for me Your assistance in this regard would be greatly appreciated
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
Sister in Islam,
We advise you to obtain the book Sexuality in Islam by Doctor Farouk Haffejee. It will make a useful read. It addresses the concerns you refer to. This book can be obtained at:
https://hikmah.co.za/product/sexuality-in-islam-by-dr-farouk-haffejee/?_pos=1&_sid=2f59a5180&_ss=r
And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best
Mahmood Suliman
Student Darul Iftaa
Gaborone, Botswana
Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.