its just that we fear our parents will say no,and wouldnt allow us to get married which 2 them is a young age.we feel is we asked later they will be ok.i ask this because the Prophet(saw) said u should marry without delay
Answer
Marriage is a major step in one’s life and one should exercise caution in
going ahead.
The advise of one’s seniors is of paramount important as they have insight
of life due to their experiences. Furthermore, their guidance will be
motivated by their love and concern for you. You should not do anything
unilaterally as you may make a grievous error due to lack of experience and
insight.
and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai