Assalam, iwas in lOve with a girl, even she loved ver much.two days ago she got married to NRI who is from America.She says,she will Love only and no one else.I tried to tell her that its wrong thing. I FEAR ALLAH and i DIN’T EVEN TOUCH HER.BEFORETHE NIKAAH SHE SAID ‘MUJHE TUM KOBOOL HO’ OVER THE PHONE, NOW ALSO SHE KEEPS MESSAING ME AND WANTS TO SPEAK WITH ME. BUT, FIRST I DID NOT ANSWER HER CALLS.BUT LATER ON SHE WAS FRUSTATED AND I ANSWERED HER CALL.SHE DECLARED THAT IM HER HUSBAND FROM HER HEART. I said lets stop all this.but she never listens still she keeps messaging me ..Please Help me out in this regard. Mufti Saab Im really disturbed….please reply me …What shall i do.i never want to hurt her. plese reply me.
Answer:
(Fatwa: 1493/1219=D/1430)
She is strange and non-mahram to you, it is unlawful to talk to her. Now you should withdraw yourself completely and she also pay attention to fulfil the rights of her husband and should think to live with her husband forever. Her love messages are satanic nets, as it was said that women are satanic traps. Keep yourself away from her and do not have any contacts, it is sinful act.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband