I am an engineer in qatar. i married with a girl whom i loved in oct 2009.but we didnot tell our parnts.v r of different castes.i belong (nai).she is (sheeshgsr).v did this for our safety.but now i told my prnts they agree.but her father doesnt agree because of other caste.ven she tell her mother about me not about nikah .they brutally treated her.i vant to know the way so that they get agree to accept me.without harming anyone emotions.I dont vanna to discloseour nikah.because her parents may kill her.plz advise me im in need of my wife .I always got fear about her.today beated her taken away mobile.plz help me
Answer:
(Fatwa: 878/L=326/TL=1432)
You should have thought over the caste prior to nikah. You did this mistake that you performed nikah secretly. Now you should convince the parents of the girl to accept the nikah. You should make dua along with planning. After Isha salah, recite ya Lateef ya Wadood (يا لطيف يا ودود) 1111 times with durood 11-11 times before and after thinking that the hearts of their parents are softened.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband