Question: Is it possible that my husband will want to be with his previous love in Paradise, even if in This Life he has not decided that he only wants me?
Answer:
Wa alaykum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,
Dear questioner,
Thank you for your important question.
May Allah save your heart from being broken in This Life and in the Hereafter!
Allah’s generosity is not like that. Once you set your two feet in Paradise worries of who loves who, insecurities, feelings of jealousy, or of missing something or someone just do not exist.
The Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) said that in Paradise “there will be no disputes and none will hate another. Their hearts will be like the heart of one person. They glorify Allah morning and evening.” [Bukhari]
Just trust in Allah that if you make it to Paradise (and inshaAllah you will), you will be more than overjoyed. Do not try and manage how exactly He is going to do that. He is too generous for us to mini manage him.
I pray this helps.
[Ustadh] Farid Dingle
Checked and Approved by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani
Ustadh Farid Dingle has completed extensive years of study in the sciences of the Arabic language and the various Islamic Sciences. During his studies, he also earned a CIFE Certificate in Islamic Finance. Over the years he has developed a masterful ability to craft lessons that help non-Arabic speakers gain a deep understanding of the language. He currently teaches courses in the Arabic Language.