The questioner should not ask more than one scholar. You ask four or five people, then you claim that you are confused. You were hard on yourself so things were made hard for you as was done with Bani Isra-il. Your job is to find someone whose religion and knowledge you trust and ask them. The time you spend asking so many different people is better spent finding the most trustworthy Mufti.
[Taken from a Fatwa of Sh. Muhammad Abd. Wahid al-Hanbali (h)]