Answered by Ustadha Shaista Maqbool
Question: I understand that if one has an orgasm, a ghusl is required each time something exits from one’s private parts after intimate relations. However, because it is normal for most women to have discharge all day long even without any relations, how does one know whether what is coming out is sexual fluid or everyday discharge? When do the ghusls stop?
For example:
Husband and wife are intimate at 2 AM.
Wife experiences exiting of fluids afterwards.
She does ghusl before fajr at 5 AM.
Wife experiences the exiting of fluid all day thereafter.
It could be sexual fluid but it could also be her usual discharge.
Please help clarify this as its becoming a huge source of waswasa and hardship for me.
JazakAllahu khair,
Wasalaam
Answer: Wa’alaikum assalaam warahmatu Allah,
If a woman urinates after intercourse, if semen exits from her thereafter, she is only required to do wudu, not ghusl. Therefore she would only take one ghusl after intercourse.
If she has discharge after this, she does wudu if she is certain or predominantly believes the fluid exiting is semen. If she is uncertain (for example 50/50), she would consider it to be normal female discharge.
And Allah knows best.
Wasalaam,
Shaista Maqbool
Checked & Approved by Faraz Rabbani