Id like your advice on a marriage proposal i have received.
Two years ago i asked for the hand of a girl for marriage,before i asked i did Istikhara and received a positive sign.I went along with my Istikhara and my parents asked for this girl.After a couple of weeks i received an answer saying she was still studying to become an alima and they did not want to disrupt that.Neways i forgot about that and started to think about marriage again,when just before ramzan i received a proposal from the same girl who knocked me back 2 years ago.Ive been and seen this girl since and liked what i saw and heard from her.Apparantly they are really keen for me to say yes but i am so confused.Alhumdollialh Allah swt has given me so much..i keep on thinking why after all this time? do they want me for who i am or for what ive got? Id love to marry somebody who is pious and she fits the bill perfectly but why do i have these doubts.Ive been told by people that you should never marry an alima because it will cause trouble in the future but id love to marry somebody who has a wealth of knowledge for me to tap in2.Inshallah I will do istikhara .I hope you can give me some advice on what to do cos i really need it.
Zazakallah for your time in advance
Assalamualikum
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