We are four brothers Mash’Allah. My father has been most unreasonable and cruel towards me , my brothers and my mother as far back as I can remember. He divorced my mother 6 years ago to marry a younger woman, threw my mother out of he house, and has wrongfully taken the joint property she owned. He tortures me and my brothers to the extent that, one of my brothers had a serious nervous breakdown, I fear that his disgusting behavior and verbal, mental abuse is always affecting my mental state, and cannot cope with this anymore.
I am 35 years old, married with a beautiful son and this is affecting my married life and work as well.
He is receiving pension but we still look afer him financially. Since he has divorced my mother we live with her and he lives seperately. He is constantly slandering my mother not only to me but to every person he comes in contact with.
Apparently he is a religious man, and has been with Talighi Jamaat. He has not supported any of us financially for about 16-20 years, inspite of having funds to do so.
He is now insisting that I break of relations with my brother (whom he has always been against for no reason), and and is trying to break my relations with my mother as well, and this whole family will break up.
Can you please guide me how to cope with this situation and how can I save myself?
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