Cooperation in a marital relationship

Q: Its almost going to be two years of my marriage. I have a kid who’s mashallah going to be 3 months. I don’t know what is wrong with me and my husband. We have lots of arguments and lots of fights for useless reasons. Where I try to make him understand certain things, he does not listen and things I am taunting him. In result we stop talking to each other for a week. This happens every two weeks. Please advice what has to be done.


A: In a marital relationship, the spouses need to cooperate with each other. Each one needs to appreciate the other and overlook their shortcomings and weaknesses. After your five daily Salaah recite the attached dua.

And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.


Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)