Q: My husband has abandoned me in sleeping with him. He doesn’t eat what I cook for him. Talks without looking at me. He is still in a state where he hasn’t decided to separate with me or live with me and our kids. What time is this allowed? He doesn’t give me a reason for doing this. I am in depression wanting him to be normal. He doesn’t give me a time frame for when he will decide. I read online that men can decide not to sleep with wife if she is arrogant. It should not exceed upto one month. Otherwise what should I do if it does.
A: Continue to serve him with respect and recite the attached duaa after salaah. May Allah Ta’ala soften his heart towards you.
And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
Answered by:
Mufti Zakaria Makada
Checked & Approved:
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)