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Becoming effected by the comments of a female co-worker

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Q: My question is actually a girl (my office colleague) commented on my walk, but no one until now has commented to me like this before and she thinks I am not straight. I can’t get this out of my mind. How could she say this to me when I am perfectly alright. Thinking about this has killed me literally every time I walk or talk to any person. I can’t forget it. I want that lady to move away from my department. Once she is not in the office I will be relaxed and calm. If she is there, I can’t concentrate on anything and I get panic. Please help me.

Bismillaah

A: Why must you be casual with girls. They are deficient, hence their suggestions must be deficient. Becoming thick and interacting with deficient people will make you deficient in your understanding of situations.

And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

This answer was collected from MuftiOnline.co.za, where the questions have been answered by Mufti Zakaria Makada (Hafizahullah), who is currently a senior lecturer in the science of Hadith and Fiqh at Madrasah Ta’leemuddeen, Isipingo Beach, South Africa.