Communicating before nikaah

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Q: I was very religious before, then I fell in love with a boy. Slowly I got distanced from my religion. I will marry that boy but if I will not talk to him it will hurt him. Will I be sinful now because I am talking to him for 2 years and now I am not talking to him because of my religion. He has sacrificed much for me. I will be hurting him so will I be sinful?


A: No. Tell him that this is not permissible. Therefore, you are keeping away until it is permissible for you to talk i.e. with nikaah.

And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.


Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

This answer was collected from, where the questions have been answered by Mufti Zakaria Makada (Hafizahullah), who is currently a senior lecturer in the science of Hadith and Fiqh at Madrasah Ta’leemuddeen, Isipingo Beach, South Africa.

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