1. I get waswasas when I do wudu and they are like did I rinse my nose three times? Did I recite the verse properly etc? And same about verses while praying and if I ignore them I feel like I have not done it properly, especially while performing ghusal it takes me one hour and I do not like that, so what to do?
2. I get thoughts I do not know whether they are waswasas or not but dirty and negative thoughts pop up in my head about my mother etc. I told my mom, she said ignore it. I did now they do not and even if they do I just ignore them but I want to ask is it only me who gets such waswasas because I felt at times that I am the worst boy because such thoughts with visuals pop up in my head although I do not think about them?
And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)