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Can a man who has committed Zina repent and lead a good life according to Islamic teachings?

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assalamu alaikum sir,i am a 21yr old guy who have comitted zina with her chachi who is not a ghair mehroom for me.sir many times i have repented in front of allah but i dont kept my words and comitted the sin again. i have asked her 2 repent.ihave taken the greater part in that sin i use to give her money and compel her to the sin.she use to refuse but i i use to compell her sir now i want to become a good man but even after repenting i am unable to live my habit. at this condtn i cant even marry because i have lot of responsibilities even if i think of marrying anyone i dont get a good wife. according 2 surah noor”PURE MEN ARE FOR PURE WOMEN”but i am scoundrel and i cant get pure and good life partner then how can i think of marrying her and decieve her. sir i want to become a true muslim and want to be a man of good conduct,good akhlaq.Also i hope ALLAH rabbulizzat will forgive me but because for the peace of my heart i need your help so kindly show me a way. 1)CAN I BECOME PAK DAMAN AND NEKUKAR.WHAT I HAVE TO DO SO THAT ALLAH SHOULD FORGIVE ME? 2)CAN I GET A GOOD LIFE PERTNER AND WHAT I HAVE TO DO TO QUIT ALL EVIL HABITS AND BECOME A PURE MEN AND AGREAT MUSLIM? 3)SHOULD I ASK FORGIVENESS FROM MY UNCLE?SHOW ME A WAY sir i have no interest to live and i am not giving any interst for my studies but my parents are in need of my sahara so plese show me a way sir also i was in jamath before 3months and i saw a bad dream at about 3:30 or 4am the dream was i was in my room in my home with someone who was a male suddenly a girl i exactly dont no who is she and she comes to my room and locka the door some people will stop her but still she comes in then,the man with have sex with her and then later i to have sex with her then my eyes opened and i was ina situation that i was in need of gusul then i woke up and had my gusl in the mosque. SIR PLS GIVE ME ITS TABEER.If it is a bad dream what i have to do in order get away from its evil sir pla help me SIR DONT DISPLAY MY QUESTION IN FATWA PAGE PLS GIVE REPLY DIRECTLY TO MY ID BECAUSE TILL NOW NO ONE NOW ABOUT MY SIN EXCEPT ALLAH AND I WANT OTHERS TO KNOW ABOUT THIS ASSALAMU ALAIKUM

Answer

(Fatwa: 2281/1779=H/1429)

Make a fresh ghusl, put on new or washed clothes and offer two rakah Salatut Taubah. Having completed the salah, recite durood 500 times and istighfar (استغفر اللہ ربی من کل ذنب واتوب الیہ) 500 times and then durood 500 times, then supplicate to Allah in earnest and beg for his forgiveness. Make firm intention not to go near adultery and things leading to it. Avoid privacy and brazen relation with the aunty and or with any strange woman. Repeat the abovementioned action twice in a week and continue it to six months at least. Pray five time salah and recite the Quran regularly. In-shaAllah you shall get pious. If there is any pious follower of sunnah sheikh around you, you should pay him visits and try to apply in your life the instructions given by him.

(2) By following the answer 1, in-shaAllah you shall find all ways open for you.

(3) There is no need to seek pardon or to mention the sin.

(4) May Allah protect you from bad dreams and their bad effects. Also, you should go to jamah as per the local schedule.

Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best

Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband

This answer was collected from the official ifta website of Darul Uloom Deoband in India.

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