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After my marriage i went for dubai and my wife went for her mother house for delivery after born a boy baby she refused to come my home, when i came back to india she refuse to live with me she want to me move to her mohter’s house. my mom in her old age god fearing, and sick, nobody look her except me my brother was is dubai my sister also got married. we conduct to meetings with my city jamath and her city jamath but failed as she is very adamant, and she don’t want to live with my mother, inshallah am to ready to let me mom alone in her old age. and her city jamath also gave me a letter stating that ask me to do as per sharia laws. nearly eight month’s we are living separately, and she refuse to show the kid to me what is the solution according sharia laws please give me advice…

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after my marriage i went for dubai and my wife went for her mother house for delivery after born a boy baby she refused to come my home, when i came back to india she refuse to live with me she want to me move to her mohter’s house. my mom in her old age god fearing, and sick, nobody look her except me my brother was is dubai my sister also got married. we conduct to meetings with my city jamath and her city jamath but failed as she is very adamant, and she don’t want to live with my mother, inshallah am to ready to let me mom alone in her old age. and her city jamath also gave me a letter stating that ask me to do as per sharia laws. nearly eight month’s we are living separately, and she refuse to show the kid to me what is the solution according sharia laws please give me advice…

Answer

(Fatwa: 420/H=132/th=1432)

When your wife herself has written to do what is according to Shariah, then the matter is very easy. You should tell her that the order of shariah is that you should accompany me home and stay there with good conduct. And if you wish you can serve my mother willingly, but it is not wajib on you to serve my mother. I will pay all the rights pertaining to you and child. In short, live happy life together with good character and moral, so is written in shariah and this is liked by Almighty Allah and the holy Prophet Muhammad (صلى الله عليه وسلم). These things have been written beautifully in Bahishti Zewar, Islah Inquilab, Hayatul Muslimin, Tohfah Khawatin (by Hadhrat Maulana Mufti Muhammad Ashiq Ilahi, Bulandshahri). These books should be held very dear by the Muslims particularly husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sister-in-law and brother’s wife. In-sha-Allah, it shall be very useful to study and read out these books.

Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best

Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband

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