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Do you want to stay with her or find someone else to marry according to your age?

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I got married with the will of my parent and my will also but before marriage i asked certain thing to girl she told me wrong like his age , education he 5 years older to me after 5 days of marriage i left India know i am in KSA, i feel very bad about it now want to stay with her any more please guide me what can i do because she did not tell me correctly what i asked her know se say see did not tell me because i will deny to marry her no I don’t want to stay with her and want to do another marriage according to my age.

Answer

(Fatwa: 710/702=D)

You hurried in performing marriage, did not investigate the matter thoroughly and believed the assurance of the girl. She cheated you and you decided to marry her hastily while you were ordered by Hadith to do consultation and istikharah before marriage. However, when the nikah took place and she became your wife then it is necessary upon both of you to behave with good conduct to each other; it is wrong to even think of separation without any sharai reason. Only being older in age is not a defect. When the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) married Hazrat Khadeeja he was only 25 while she was 40. However, if you dislike it you try to deal with it considering it as decision of Allah, in-sha-Allah you will get reward. And, if there is really any defect or fault then take a step only after consulting elders of your family.

Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best

Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband

This answer was collected from the official ifta website of Darul Uloom Deoband in India.

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