Answer
(Fatwa: 1020/887=B1429)
(1) The ongoing milad is not proved by the Holy Quran, Hadith and Khairul Quroon (the age of Sahaba and their successors). Therefore, it is innovation that must be abandoned.
(2) You should protect your clothes form drops of urine. If there is not so impurity, you should pour little water and try to urinate while sitting otherwise it is allowable to urinate while standing too. After all, you should protect your clothes and wash your feet after urination.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
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