I am going to marry in one or two years. my fiance is two years older than me. we r in love and going to marry which our parents have aproved. is it unislamic to marry withyour choice girl and elder than you. also she is my cousin.
It is lawful to marry a girl elder than you, as the Prophet (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) married Hazrat Khadeejah (رضی اللہ عنھا), but talking to your fianc?e unnecessarily, meeting and walking with her is un-Islamic and unlawful, so you should avoid it.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Uloom Deoband