AssalaamuAlaikum Mufti Sahab, I am a newly married person and I have some questions relating to my personal life which I am sharing it with you . I had the habit of masturbating 2 years back.But I stopped it long time ago. But now that I got married,I got same implications of it again which I want to share it with you. 1. Alhamdulillaah, I enjoy my married life with my wife all through.But, Only during the menstruation Periods of my wife, I find it very difficult to control myself only during nights and so I ask my wife to masturbate for me with her hand. Is it right to do so? Please advise . 2. Before Intercourse, My Wife touches my private part and enlarges it which is the same process involved during masturbation too. Is this act also correct or wrong ? Please advise asap. After her mentruation Periods, I never get indulged in such filthy acts.
If the lust is overwhelming and it is difficult to control, then it is admissible to get the above thing done with the hands of wife. You should not do it with your own hands and should not be accustomed to it.
(2) There is no problem, this act is allowable.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Uloom Deoband