I am 30 years of age. I was married some 3 years ago. After few months of my marriage, for certain domestic problems, my brothers compelled me to divorce my wife. I did so [triple talaq]. I was greatly shocked by doing this and decided not to marry forever. One day, I uttered repeatedly, in anger, the following sentences. [kisi bhee namuhrem aurat [woman] ke sath jabhee me nikah karroon ya koi aur shakhs uskay saath meri nikah chahay jis tariqay se bhee karray,tu har baar wo aurath mujh par talaq ho.] Now would you, please, guide me that whether Islamic Shariah allows me to marry, so that I may not do sins.
Answer
(Fatwa: 137/138/M=1433)
As per the question mentioned above, you can get your nikah done by a fuzuli (an unappointed agent). That some fuzuli gets your nikah done and you do not accept it verbally rather accept it by your act (by sending mahr etc). You should understand all aspect of this ruling by any local Mufti:
كل امرأة تدخل فى نكاحي أو تصير حلالا لي فكذا فأجاز نكاح فضولي بالفعل لا يحنث …. و مثله ….إن تزوجت امرأة بنفسي أو بوكيلي أو بفضولي أو دخلت في نكاحي بوجه ما تكن زوجته طالقاً لأن قوله أو بفضولي إلى آخره عطف على قوله بنفسي وعامله تزوجت وهوخاص بالقول الخ (درمختار 5/673 زكريا ديوبند)
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband