ASSALAMU ALAIKUM WA RAHMATULLAHI WA BARAKATAHU MY WIFE GETS ANGRY ON SILLY THINGS AND HER TEMPER OFTEN GETS HIGH.SHE OFTEN ASKS FOR TALAQ IN ANGER.I HAVE GIVEN HER TALAQ ONCE.I WANTED TO ASK IS THERE IS ANY DUA OR TASBEEH WHICH WUD CALM HER DOWN IN HER LIFE AND MAKES HER OBEDIENT AND MAKES HER PIOUS IN ISLAMIC DEEDS. I HAD ASKED THIS QUESTION BEFORE TOO FATWA ID (26536) BUT DIDNT UNDERSTAND THE ANSWER FULLY. THANK YOU
Answer
(Fatwa: 1734/1264/L=1431)
You should start the reading of Fazail A’amal in your house. Ask your wife to continue the recitation of Ya Latif, Ya Aziz, Ya Ghaffar (يا لطيف ، يا عزيز ، يا غفار). In-sha-Allah, it shall soften her mind. You should be patient and forbearing when your wife is angry, you should not become furious.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
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