Salam i am engaged with my cousin. But i don’t like her much. i m just doing this beacuase i wanted to go canada for my future growth as she lives in canada and she is going to sponsor me after nikah which is held in july 09. Q1. Is that rite to do nikah with her as we do not like each other very much? …She gives more time to her friendz rather than me, so i get hurt through this, when i try to make her understand, she do no understand that and and say that “u r paki gawar, old minded” she do whatever she wants to do like doing chat and talking on fone with her friends etc. Q2. So should i carry on this relationship? This is rite that i am going to grow my future but my other need is not going to be satisfied so.. Q3. What should i do?
Answer
(Fatwa: 266/242=D/1430)
It is not good sign that she mocks you and does not give importance to you. You should consult your elder family members and do istikharah about the same.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband