My mother’s behaviour is not good in my opinion. I say this work is not good do not try to do it but after some time I found that she is doing same work which I say her not to do. In this position I lost my patience and said her some hard words. But my mother continuously doing and I am continuously abusing her. What can I do in this position?
Answer
(Fatwa: 1471/1150/B=1433)
You have no right to say any harsh words to your beloved mother. It is a major sin. If your mother is unhappy with you then Allah shall be unhappy with you. You should control your tongue, have patience and never chide her. Otherwise your both the worlds shall be perished.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband