بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
(1) When your father has died then the house and his leftover property should be divided among his heirs. In case it is not divided due to some reasons and you intend to give it on rent then it should be given with the consent of all the heirs and the amount of rent should be divided among all the heirs as per their shares.
(2) If you have spent the amount voluntarily without the condition of return then it shall not be allowable for you to demand the same or to take it from the leftover property.
Note: Likewise you cannot demand the amount of rent. However, you may demand your share in the house and after it is divided you may take the rent after fixing it.
Allah knows Best!
Darul Uloom Deoband