Assalaamu alaikum! I am a new convert to Islam from Judaism. After a parent or near relative dies, Jews are supposed to recite the Mourner’s Kaddish, a prayer in Hebrew praising the greatness of God, for them. Would I be permitted to recite it or say it along with a group? I have not told my family of my conversion and they would expect me to go along with it. And during Jewish holidays such as Hanukkah, before I converted, I would give money to Jewish and Israeli charities. Would this be permissible? Does Islam require that all other religious practices, even those of the People of the Book, be rejected on converting to Islam?
The contents of your e-mail is very encouraging. Your reversion to Islam is
a great gift and bounty from Allah. You are indeed a chosen person by Allah.
May Allah grant you internal strength and keep you steadfast on Imaan
(faith) of Islam (Aameen).
If you have not informed your family members of your reversion to Islam and
require time to do so due to your personal circumstances and you are
compelled to attend the Kaddish prayer, you will be excused for that. We
advise you praise Allah in the Kaddish for granting you Islam and pray for
the true guidance of the Jewish nation to Islam. You should also guard
yourself against any anti-Islamic feelings and sentiments as such an
attitude breaths hatred for Islam and the Muslims. A human being does get
effected with his/her surroundings and atmosphere.
You will be excused for making any charitable contribution to Israeli
charities before your reversion to Islam.
When Abdullah Ibn Salam (RA) (a leading personality and a scholar among the
Jews) accepted Islam, Allah revealed the following verses “Oh you who
believe, enter into Islam completely” We advise you consider the above and
make adjustments to finally comply with the order of Allah. The practice of
Abdullah Ibn Salam (RA) is indeed the best guide for you.
and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
FATWA DEPT.