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What should i do, im feeling bad for having sex, im feeling bad for braking the promise… should i go back and marry her what should i do

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I met a girl we fall in love, my family was reluctant / opposed to accept as her character wasn’t so good, she told me about her previous affair, however few more guys who know her say she had many more affairs and dating is normal to her, however she changed for me she started doing hijab & I promised her to marry, but Shaitan we had sex. now the realization of zina is eating me up. I don’t know what to do she says she is pregnant. I got proofs that she use to date few of the guys she went with are owing Quran. she says its all lies; please tell me what should I do go back to her and marry or leave her. what should be done to the babe. we abort ?? please email me… jazak allah

Answer

We have stated repeatedly to our readers the dangers and harms of premarital relationships and contact. Your experience is another example of the consequences of such Haraam and evil relationships.

We hope our readers will take heed to our warnings and abstain from having any contact whatsoever with a girl or vice versa before marriage. The marriage may not even materialise as in your case. The girl is simply used and dumped. There is no point in you accusing her by having affairs with others. You cannot prove your innocence with this form of defense. We advise you discuss the matter once again with your family and make a proper decision.

and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best

Mufti Ebrahim Desai

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