Assalamualaikum.I’m a muslim 24year old girl following hanafi madhab.2years ago i married a man without the consent of wali who is a good man.we wanted that later we would marry again with the consent of wali.we didn’t act as husband and wife.he lives in another country.now he came to our country and wants to marry.but my father is not accepting him though he knows about the marriage.i prayed istikhara and felt that i should not hurt him.my brother who is quran hafiz prayed istikhara and got positive feelings.my mother also felt same.my father prayed and 1st day he saw a dream of a white paper came from abroad.he couldn’t read what is written in it.2nd and 3rd day he prayed but had no feelings.now he is shouting at my mother for my fault! And telling to get divorced from that man.he would rather not get me married than accepting that man .because the man is not from same social status of us! But actually he is able to bear my costs.now what can i do please give some advice.
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
Sister,
You state you married the person. You then state: “…now he came to our country…” How did the marriage take place? Explain in detail. We will advise further.
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Ref: Hammad Jogiat
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