Marital issues

Q: I’m engaged with a girl three months back but 20 days back a guy called me and pretending that he had an affair with that girl and physically also, but the girl is denying that and promised on her parents, on Allah and on the Qur’an also that she is pure and no one has touched her. I did istekara also one month back but I didn’t get any feeling or dream. Her father is a good man and a heart patient. I don’t know what to do. Whom to belive? She is ready to do a virginity test also. I am totally confused. Please guide me whether I should marry her or not.


A: Unfortunately, this type of a practice is much in vogue when a good respectable girl is engaged then someone is envious and spiteful and they make these types of false allegations with the intent disgracing and despising the girl. Our work is not to pay attention to this type of criticism. Trust in Allah and continue with your life.

And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.


Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)