Pleasing the husband


1. Is it wrong for me to get upset with my husband if he only takes me to the haram for a few hours, where I’d like to spend more time?

2. Would this be regarded as waswasah if it is wrong?

3. If it’s waswasah what should I do or read?


A: Undoubtedly performing tawaaf in the haram is greatly rewarding in the sight of Allah Ta’ala. However for the wife to please her husband is even more rewarding. Hence, (apart from the time your husband takes you to the haram to perform tawaaf) if your husband asks you to remain in your hotel room, then you should obey him.

And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.


Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)