Q: I have question regarding divorce in the heart. I was having waswasa of divorce 2 month back. You told me that don’t pay attention to doubts, but these whisper of shaitan don’t stop. Sometime my wife is using facebook, thought comes to me that if she uses facebook, divorce her. Sometime if you had sex with her today you are divorced, then on that day I don’t do sex with my wife. I mean in every thing it comes to my mind if she does this I divorce her. I did not utter it. My lips are closed and tongue doesn’t move too. I even don’t remember clearly what I said it but I am afraid maybe by this I will get divorced. Please clarify for me. Please give me a wazifa that I can do.


A: Do not pay any attention to these doubts.

And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

فروع النية عندنا شرط مطلقا ولو عقبها بمشيئة فلو مما يتعلق بأقوال كطلاق وعتاق بطل وإلا لا (الدر المختار 1/ 437)

قال الشامي : قوله ( فلو مما يتعلق ) أي فلو كان هو أي المنوي المدلول عليه بالنية مما يتعلق بالأقوال كقوله أنت طالق وأنت حر إن شاء الله بطل لأن الطلاق أو العتق لا يتعلق بالنية بل بالقول حتى لو نوى طلاقها أوعتقه لا يصح بدون لفظ (رد المحتار 1/ 437)

Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)