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Should I pursue marriage with the pious girl despite my brother’s opposition, or risk my family’s collapse?

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I was sitting in a Masjid and this girl Salma was sitting in front of me and as soon as she looked at me she was like shivered of fear, then I came out of Masjid and I see her brother talking to my brother and sister. I did not get a good feeling about her brother (probably as not so nice guy).
(2) Where I see a very old building is getting collapsed and a few old cars were there on its roof and the whole building felt to ground. (3) Me and my eldest brother were trying to enter a house a dog came running out of it and tried to bite me, I tried to stop but it was just trying to bite me but not my brother”.
(4) I was in a house with lots of people and I was looking at a girl who was very beautiful and I liked her very much, but at the same time I see one more girl there very pious and felt like she is actually the girl I am looking in marriage? My brother is against this marriage and I think my family will collapse if I move further with this marriage. Please suggest me.

Answer

(Fatwa: 1436/L=533/TL=1433)

If you are getting this indication in your istikharah that it is not better to marry there then you should preferably not marry there, . In order to get pious wife keep on reading the following dua extensively:
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَاماً [الفرقان : 74]

Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best

Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband

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